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The 2006 Black Movie Awards Red Carpet
Coverage and Photos By Candace Waller

A new addition to Highergroundonline, Ms. Candace Waller, was blessed with the opportunity to cover the Red Carpet at the Black Movie Awards at the @ The Shrine Wiltern Theater in Hollywood, California. As one can imagine, it was a star-studded event backed with some of the most prominent figures in Black Film and entertainment today. Check out her exclusive photos of this year’s event.  Read More

The art of a Bra: "I love fashion, and I hate clothes"
I wasn't at all proud that I was developing faster than the other girls my age, but I did indeed embrace the changes in my body with confidence, because that's what my mother instilled in me. Continue Reading

FREE AGENCY

Relationship Free Agency and the Pursuit of the Ring
I Fired My Representative
Being Happy vs Being In God's Will
Avoiding Sexual Sin, Four Part Series
Read Part I ,Part II ,Part III and Part IV
The Illusion of Commitment
Keeping Your Marriage Pure
There's Something About You...
It's The Questions
Part I, Part II & Part III
Burn Hollywood Burn (Film: 30 Years To Life)
What You Really Need To Know (Cause All That Glitters Ain't Gold)
The Dichotomy of The Female Species and Rap Lyrics
Young and Dumb
Tidbits on Style
Club Checklist
Black Man's Cry
Single Parenting
Head Or Gut?
Why Should I Be Nice?
What's Really Going On?
Women: You make me wanna holla
Relationships: Can You Relate?
Shortage Or Shortsighted
The Numbers Game
Five And Dime Store
The Utopian Relationship Checklist
Bigger Is Not Always Better
 
Thank you To my village:  It’s Not Just Mine It’s Ours.
I am finishing undergrad everybody, and going on to law school in the fall.  So what’s the big deal? The big deal is that walking across that stage will not just be my shining moment in time.  The big deal is that this achievement belongs to my entire village.  Continue Article

 
A Friendly Game of (Relationship) Baseball
In a metaphoric world, when dealing with relationships in terms of finding your life mate can be compared to being at bat in a baseball game. In my opinion, you are only really thrown three or four good pitches to hit that home run. Many of us overlook quality pitches that are thrown at us, and end up settling for a pitch that we shouldn't be swinging at, in fear of striking out. Read Article
 
Manhood Part II
One of the most obvious areas in our community that need healing is in the relationships between Black men and Black women. Currently there is a basic distrust of brothers by Black women, and too many brothers approach dealing with Black women with a “pimp or die” mentality. Read Article
 
Out, Damned Spot! Part 1: The Wet Spot Theory
Alright, so the other day I’m in another conversation about relationships. As we chat, one of my closest boys is describing his current conundrum, Currently he has been “involved” with a woman of equal yoke and would probably jump at the chance to be his wife. Now one would say “hmmmm…what’s the problem?” but let me explain. Read Article
 

Out, Damned Spot! Part 2: Five Star Restaurant: Only Accepting Patrons With Dry Shirts On!
In part one a man with a "playa" mentality was analogized as having a wet spot on his shirt. Now that our writer L.G. Readmore have exposed this theory, he now looks at which "restaurants" would actually take a person with a soiled or spotted shirt... Hence "The theory of the Five Star Restaurant" Read Article
 
The World's A Mess... What Do I Have To Be Thankful For?
No matter how bad things may look in your life and in the world, if you rely on GOD and work in his will, he will show his appreciation to you and bless you here on earth as well as in his Kingdom. Have a safe and blessed holiday. Read Article
 
Manhood Part I
For years we have heard women bemoaning the issues that they have with their men. Be it that there man is cheating on them, using them, emotionally or physically abusing them, or just flat out isn’t worth a damn. I myself have been one that has been extremely critical of sisters who I felt would have better fortunes in their relationships if they just simply made better choices of their men. Read Article
 
The Eye Covenant
Let's face it men, no matter how much you love you wife and find her attractive, you're always going to see another woman who grabs your attention. You know how it works: You're out somewhere, minding your own business when all the sudden ...there she is. She's sensual, beautiful, and lightly fragranced. You want to look away, but you just can't take your eyes off her. Read Article
 
A Fond Farewell
Today is the last day of my 20's. In less than 8 hours, I will enter the 4th decade of my life on this planet. Over the past few months, I have been trying to figure out how I feel about that fact. And now that it is eminent, I have still not come to a conclusion. Evidently, how I am feeling right now is how I feel about it.
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Someone Else's Wife
Ever since we broke up, I knew the day would come. In some ways, I've been preparing myself for it. But there is no real way to prepare. You never know how you will respond to a situation until it presents itself. And one day that I have not been looking forward to has arrived. The woman I once thought I would marry is engaged to another man. Continue
 
The Beautiful Killer
This flower, known as Wisteria, has four species: Chinese, Japanese, American, and Kentucky. Despite all the good press about the Wisteria, the flower has a dark side. While it livens and refreshes everyone with its long, drooping vines covered with blooms; it carries a destructive payload just waiting to be activated. Read Article

 
God's Mixing Bowl
I like many of you, like to lick the mixing bowl. This is a treat in small doses, but a whole bowl of cake mix would make anyone sick. It’s best to bake the cake in order to enjoy the full experience. It takes a lot of heat and pressure for a cake to rise to its full potential. So it is in life. The heat and pressure from failure, disappointment, etc. force us to rise above ourselves and look to God. Read Article